Archive for September, 2008

你是否逃避戀愛 ?

Read this from 路人甲 de blog..so i copyright!Pls read and answer the qn honestly before seeing the explanation.

Q:假日裡呼朋引伴,到遊樂園去玩耍,想要鍛練一下膽量,但是膽大還是要看情況,以下那種遊樂方式,是遊玩名單中的拒絕往來戶呢?

A、摩天輪
B、雲霄飛車
C、走迷宮
D、鬼屋

A、摩天輪
A:自由至上是這類型的人的信念,戀愛中的甜蜜固然讓他 ( 她 ) 迷醉,但是對方追著索求承諾,讓他 ( 她 ) 有了被束縛的感受,他 ( 她 ) 就想快速逃離,因為一想到要安定下來,兩人關係將要經歷現實的大考驗,他 ( 她 ) 對愛情的信心,就有動搖的跡像,並不如熱戀時堅固。這樣的想法時時盤據在他 ( 她 ) 的腦海中,最後促使他們成為乘風破浪的船隻,逃離情人的愛情港灣,去追隨內心自由的呼喚。

B、雲霄飛車
B:在感情世界裡,這類型的人或許曾經受過傷,或是天生就欠缺想要坦然釋放自我感情的一根筋,因為過於害怕被傷害,畏懼情感主導權掌握在他人手中,費盡心 思想要自己掌握感情走向,但正如同機關算盡太聰明的道理,想全盤控制事情發展,卻常不能如願,被情感藤蔓糾結著,越是掙扎越是綑得緊,於是逃走就成了自救 念頭的具體救贖行動了。

C、走迷宮
C:這類型的人最怕就是感情,他 ( 她 ) 還害怕會在愛情中迷路,總是迫切在尋找愛情對像,但是尋尋覓覓後,一旦找到看似合適的對像,內心很容易又開始陷入鑽牛角尖和掙扎,擔心一片真情真意所託非 人,充滿著無力感。要是交往對像又不能相互配合,就更容易讓他 ( 她 ) 陷入作繭自縛中。但是身體或許能叛逃成功,但偏偏心穴密結的盤絲洞,卻仍是情絲牽牽掛掛,擺脫不了愛情的陰影。

D、鬼屋
D:對於愛情,這類型的人充滿不安全感,越是愛得深越是忐忑,設想過N種情形,兩人之間來個小吵,或是情路出現紅燈,就足以讓他 ( 她 ) 天昏地暗,等同世界末日,擔憂兩人無法天長地久。因為過於害怕失去,所以常常選擇逃離,來避免面對可能被情人拋棄的慘狀,雖然大部份的分手狀況,都是他們 幻想出來的情境,但是越想越逼真,就成為這類人胸口上的愛情夢魘,為了擺脫這惡夢,逃走是他們唯一能想到的解脫途徑

我选了D.我想我真的在逃避吧.

250908 Talk…

250908 jus now met up with kiat,yy and cl for dinner at Billy Bombers..long time nv meet kiat le..recently got some 心事 so like want to share with my buddy.Just realli dunno what I want in mind i have to say.haiz..after dinner yy and cl went home first..whereas kiat and i went to my house there to talk…at the same time also pass him the gift that i bought for him during my bangkok trip..so long but have yet to giv him..that day i watch a show which like suddenly awaken me that I need to 珍惜眼前人不然会后悔..i agree to it totally..realli dunno whats in my mind now..have a quite long talk with kiat..still buddy best..every thing also can say out…though kiat gave me alot of suggestions and i have a conclusion for myself too..but thn still dunno what to do..how ar? duh..haiyo..when reach home..i was reading ailing’s blog..realize she recently got no appetite to eat..i know somethings not right but thn i guess she wants to be alone at that moment..hope she will get well soon..

Recently keep watching drama to keep myself busy after work..that day went k with ling they all..after that went to jean house eat dinner..as usual jean de mummy talked to me..LOL…ling was tired recently as she jus started new job and she got many things to learn and cope..must be stress ..can see that she is really tired..hope that her health can stay in good condition so that she can manage well on her work.

Lee siah recently busy studying and doing project..another stress “leg”..must realli jiayou for her..saw yuyun’s blog that her grandma passed away recently..also hope that she can recover from sadness soon..

Anyway I realli hope that all my friends and love ones will stay happy always…

310808 Birthday Celebration

So long nv blog le..again got spider webby le my blog..poor mayi everi time come in nothing to read she must be bored..lol..310808 Today is my so called 华人生日, 八月初一, meet kiat, gary, mayi, crystal, yy & cl @ PS. They helping me to celebrate my birthday. Before that i meet kiat earlier on to the pc show at suntec..really freaking lots of ppl there..kia su singaporean as today is the last day of the pc show..haha i am one of them also..lol..wanted to get a 1TB de external hard disk..Poor kiat have not enough sleep..work until 12pm in the afternoon thn sleep awhile accompany me go pc show. In the end bought the external hard disk @ $199 which i think is super cheap..kiat also bought a 4gb thumb drive..haa same as mayi de..lol..had dinner at this jap restaurant forgot the name le but i went there b4 is jus beside ajisan at PS.

Some pics taken by mayi.

As mentioned by mayi, MY GANG!

Crystal and “gong gong” de mayi!Haha!!

ah yin,cl and me!

hey kenny dont think i dunno..after we left the restaurant you say go toilet actualli went back to find the jap girl right..=p

Thanks for the birthday song!!

duh..yy always like to act CUTE de lor..

after dinner left mayi kiat kenny and i we went mac sit sit chat chat until bout 11++ thn all of us took a cab home tgt..anyway have a great day..thank you guys for the pressie & the dinner..Realli appreciate!thanks!