Seeing things in a practical light

现在是凌晨三点三十分，本来因该在被窝里呼呼大睡的，但不知为和就是睡不着。我想可能小猫等一下给我的 morning call ,可能我都还没睡咯。

因为睡不着， 我刚刚看了螞蚁的布落格。 我心里感到有一点感伤。 也许我们各自有了彼此的忙碌生活，但是螞蚁在我心里是一个我非常重要的人。我也知道她是一个非常珍惜的友谊的人。

也许螞蚁认为多年已来没有人记得她的生日，但我从来没忘过。

希望她辛福快乐！

有一点早不过 月（巴+巴）先祝你生日快乐！  ^-^

Just realise my blog one year plus nv update le..I recall mayi keep ask me to update previously but I just 提不起劲 to update anything.

First time in my live I like 迷失方向, dunno what I am doing also..I dunno y this past one year I like to be alone..my friends keep asking me out but I keep find all kind of excuses not to go out..I guess that is why all my friends 一个一个都离我越来越远了吧..Apologise to all my friends that still care about me..

But currently I just want to be alone..Don ‘t ask me why cus myself also dunno..

New year le.. back to school again.. sick of cabal, but still playing..小猫 recently also start to play le.. still waiting for her to lvl up but her neo pets still no 1 to her..haaa..

As usual watching drama still part of my life..though might be boring to other ppl but I like it..Recently watching 海派甜心(damn funny show) & 下一站,幸福…both also quite nice..

Anyway…

希望我所有的好朋友都辛福快乐！

Recently so busy with work i guess… all of my colleague one by one go on leave only me and EK never..sob..

Some updates..

08/12/2008 – Movie: Bolt

Watch the movie call BOLT with 小猫..an animation doggie movie..very highly recommended..the show is sooo funny until i can still laugh when i think of the scenes in the show now. Especially RHINO…Joke of the show…*haha*

Bolt

10/12/2008 – Dinner at Waraku

Dinner at Waraku with lee siah, shandy, jean and selene..Oraganize by Lee Siah as we all quite long never meet up for dinner le..also get the chance to gib her the “Ang Bao” for her birthday pressie…The bowl and Waraku is really BIG I have to say.. Jean look small with the BIG bowl..Food was overall nice to me..

12/12/2008 – Briefing at MHC

Went back to Mandai Hill Camp for reservist briefing.. actually is get to know my reservist unit and what I will be doing for reservist for the upcoming 10 years of my life..My unit is 769 SIR..Inventory..means those chiong swang type de..most likely will go for my first reservist in dec 2009. Heng still same with sebas, henry, sgt liao, qianbao, justin and joseph…at least someone i know from 2 Brigade..

20/12/2008 – Basic Theory Test

I was so lazy until now still haven’t go to get my driving license..

Thanks to 小猫 I booked by basic theory which is today and passed it.. I think is because i studied before in army le..so like to me quite easy..finished the test in 15 mins and was the first to get out that room..

Booked my advance theory test on the 31st of Jan 09..

Now going to find a private instructor to get started with driving again..

Some events during this ding ding dang ding ding dang period..

24/12/2008 – Christmas lunch & 火锅

Christmas Lunch at MLT..workplace actually..dunno got half day or not..

Dinner with Shandy & Jean they all.. 火锅 at bugis..their favourite! haa but this time not suggested by Shandy but Cong Yi..

25/12/2008 – Lonely Christmas

No one date me so far..*sob*

26/12/2008 – KTV @ Chinatown

Sian today after christmas have to work..but thn after work going K with a group of colleagues at China Town..Should be fun i think..

不良笑花

Watched finish this show called 不良笑花 acted by 潘玮柏 & 杨丞琳..Rainie was very ah soh and funny in the show..especially when she speaks..i think thats the real her lor..haa..

Mayi and kiat keep saying I missing…haa mayi even lodge a police report to kiat.. Anway don’t worry I am still alive! =D

Oh ya..dint get to meet up with yy for dinner cos every time she called I am always sleeping…always fall asleep in the evening when she called me..

Today christmas eve..and now was like 3.45am but i suddenly woke up at 2am jus now when i was already in my dreamland at around 10pm..cant sleep lei..sian..

k la thats all for now..

Wish all my friends and family a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

Yesterday went to see doctor..was coughing so badly and feeling so hot…fever + ultimate cough..

got 2 days mc from the doctor..after i ate my medicine..i feel drowsy and went to sleep..when i open my eyes is like OMG 1030pm..faint slept so long..but i still feel giddy..think sleep too much..

now is like 11am in the morning..still feel giddy, vision a bit blur..coughing as usual..I tried not to drink cold water already..hope can recover soon..

Today after lunch went to century square to walk walk..thn saw this nike headphone..quite nice so i bought it but thn i realise don’t feel quite comfortable wearing it…sob…

Nike Flight Sport Headphone

想了许久，不知道结果如何，还是当朋友才是最好的！希望你可以开心的过着每一天， 不要让一点挫折打倒你。

我相信如果有一天我不能再像以前一样当你的肩膀，陪你一起伤心快乐，你一个人也可以很骄傲的对我说你过得很好的吧。

最后想说的是， 不要让以前不快乐的往事影响现在的生活。我知道不是说放就能放，可是随然你不说，在我眼里你还是被不好的往事纠残着。 你也知道只有你自己可以让自己走出来吧。

Time for me to move on too! 加油吧！^-^

MP3隨身聽已經成為每個年輕人的必備物品，你聆聽MP3時會有何習慣呢？

A. 邊聽邊唱

B. 不斷操控MP3

C. 將MP3放於袋子或褲袋

D. 把MP3掛在胸前

解析

A. 過分憂慮
抗壓指數：40
聽MP3時邊聽邊唱，甚至手舞足蹈的人，給人大情大性、樂觀開朗的感覺，然而，正因為你連聽歌也如此投入，人生中無論大小事，也會全副心思栽進去，情緒隨?顙⑺〞滌爭C起跌而起伏不定，一遇到難題及困境時，便會憂慮得茶飯不思，難以成眠，抗壓能力甚低。

B.逃避壓力
抗壓指數：60
聽歌時不喜歡按MP3的歌曲次序去聽，總會按照自己的心情心急地「飛」歌，表示你只會全情投入於自己喜歡的事情，但凡比較麻煩、困擾的事情則統統不理，所以生活於你來說無甚壓力可言。而你的抗壓能力也不算大，因為你只會任性地「避壓」，而非抗壓 。

C. 壓抑情緒
抗壓指數：70
你為人冷靜深沉，喜怒不形於色，能夠冷靜、理性地面對問題，少向朋友傾吐心事，在別人眼中，你是泰山崩於前而色不變的強人呢！然而，理性上知道是怎麼一回事，但你的心卻未必放得開，故有壓抑情緒的傾向。我們不是機械人，你要學習釋放自己的感受呀！

D. 為人豁達
抗壓指數：90
將MP3掛在胸前的人，為人豁達，視壓力為人生的磨練，並以安然的態度去面對及接受，認為考驗愈多，人生才會愈見有意思。當問題難以獨力解決時，你更會主動要求朋友幫忙，以及跟親友傾訴，可謂深懂減壓之道，因此你的身心非常健康，壓力於你來說反是一股動力。

我选 C! 你呢？

假如你登山很渴,已經很久沒喝水,幸好有一家7-11你會買選哪個 ?
1.清水
2.果汁
3.健康飲用
4.汽水
5.冰綠茶
1. 60分 隨和風趣的你很有主見,常是1堆朋友中最受矚目,但也因太受歡迎,因此喜歡你的人通常不敢馬上告訴你我喜躥你,爾改為暗示!!!!
2 20分 你很善良,而很少在打扮上下功夫,是一個非常樸實的人,而你也不懂用語言去案是對方,因此缺乏異性魅力,所以不太被暗戀,反而成談心事的好麻吉
3. 90分 熱情幽默的妳,根本就是一個天生魅力的寶貝特別容易惹狂鋒浪蝶,你懂的散發自己的魅力,也擅於地用語言來挑起對方的情感,被暗戀的指數爆多,可說是萬人迷
4 30分 你的性格有點封閉,最大的問題就是無法把內心的感受告訴對方,經常講錯話,而被朋友誤會,也因此很少被暗戀,此外,由於你的錯誤表達,以致常常失感情發展的良機
5 50 活潑可愛的妳,性格直爽,雖然有點任性,但是不是故意的,經常是朋友中的開心果,不過,經常愛情方式卻遲鈍到就算被暗戀,也會沒啥感覺,常讓暗戀你的人氣到不可以

I chose 4 and is really true…

你如何看待愛情與友情?

qn: 你的情人被一種奇怪魔咒纏身，每天都淚流不止，可是，只要你親吻他，他就可以脫離魔法的詛咒，你覺得親吻哪裡可以讓他獲救呢？

1.鼻子

2.臉頰

3.頭髮

4.嘴唇

測驗分析

1.鼻子

你很重視情人，對於情人的要求百依百順，相較之下，你對朋友可就沒有這麼的貼心了。

你把朋友當成救火隊或心情垃圾筒，當你在愛情上發生問題，想要找人傾訴的時候，才會想到朋友的可貴。

2.臉頰

你覺得情人不一定可靠，莫名其妙變心的人比比皆是，還不如把自己的真心誠意投資在朋友身上，在你的心中，朋友是一個人一生之中最大的資產，無論發生什麼事，都會以朋友為重。

3.頭髮

你是一個愛情重於友情的人，當你有了情人，見色忘友的機率沒有百分之百，一定也有百分之九十。

愛情是你生命中的空氣和水，沒有愛情的日子，你是會活不下去的，當你的朋友，必需接受你這樣的個性。

4.嘴唇

你很聰明，可以在愛情與友情之中，找到一個皆大歡喜的平衡點，平時除了和情人約會之外，也不忘和朋友保持連絡，尤其當朋友需要你的幫忙時，你甚至會先把情人放在一邊，以友情為先。

== ~ |我选的是鼻子| ~ ==

^^ 也许我会對於情人的要求百依百順， 但是我也会非常重视我心理的要好朋友。那是一定要得。=） ^^

越是亲近的两个人， 就越是受不了彼此太大的压力吗？

那种想靠近却越想远离得感觉真的让人非常苦脑。我到底在想什么呢？

我可以让当事人搞清楚自己的立场和自己想要的是什么, 但是当我是当事人的时候，我能搞清楚吗？